Haywards Heath, Hove, Crawley – which is easiest for you?

I have been working from Vinings Natural Health Centre in Haywards Heath for several years now. It’s a lovely place to work from, right in the centre of town, yet quiet and peaceful and with its own parking. Very easy for those clients who come to see me from south London too – hop on the train from Victoria or London Bridge or Clapham Junction or East Croydon and in less than an hour there you are in the Sussex countryside!

I shall still be working from Vinings, but I am also spreading my wings: from September I shall be available in Crawley  and in Hove.
The treatment room in Crawley is in Ifield, not far from the golf course.
A delightful stand-alone room, it has a beautiful energy in a peaceful garden setting with free parking. It is a couple of minutes from the Nº 2 bus route from Crawley, and about 15 minutes’ walk from Ifield train station.

In Hove, I shall be working from The Practice Rooms in Church Road, almost opposite the large Tesco store there. These are beautiful rooms – there are seven available, so never a shortage – on the first and second floors in a lovely old characterful building. There is parking just 5 minutes away in the Norton Road multi-storey car park opposite Hove Town Hall.
Please note – there are stairs up to the first floor here, so not suitable for those clients with mobility issues.

From a base of hypnotherapy I blend past life regression, soul retrieval and spirit release work to trace the real underlying root cause of the issue, and resolve it at source, allowing the client to move on with his or her life.
My clients often say, “Jude, that’s weird – but it works!”
Whatever the issue, from fears & phobias to emotional trauma; from anxiety or that sense of overwhelm to addictive behaviours; from relationship problems to giving up smoking – my “inside out” approach has worked wonders for clients of all ages.
If you feel I might be able to help you, feel free to give me a call on 01444 459 433 or 07597 020 512: it’s totally free and totally confidential.

 

ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS

Over all the years I have been working as a therapist, I have come across just about every variation on the theme of “Abusive Relationship”, from children sexually abused by parents and / or other family members to emotional blackmail, verbal abuse and “gaslighting” – where one partner manipulates the other into thinking he / she is going mad.

The two main strands involved in supporting clients who are looking for help in such situations are, first, to get to the real underlying root cause of the issue and, secondly, to encourage the client to re-discover their true self.

Those who have been sexually abused from an early age (and I have known this go on even into adulthood) carry a heavy burden that could typically include shame and embarrassment; anger, rage and hatred; a sense of betrayal, loss of trust and confusion about right and wrong. All of these create a potent cocktail that frequently shows up in the adult as feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem; inability to cultivate healthy relationships and / or appropriate sexual boundaries; a “self-destruct” button and / or self harming.
Different therapists will approach this scenario in their own ways – just one reason why it is important to find a therapist that you are comfortable with before embarking on this healing process.
My approach is typically guide a client through what I call “soul retrieval” – the client’s unconscious will tell me in which years of this life there have been trauma or events that need to be healed. With the client in a deep state of relaxation, and using powerful visualisation techniques, we go back to each year indicated in turn, not to re-live the trauma but to release the negative emotions. My question is never “what happened?” (which triggers the conscious mind) but rather “how is he / she feeling?” which keeps it in the unconscious emotional level. This can be a hugely emotional process as the client finally lets go of all the emotional baggage that has been stuffed down, hidden away for so long, and healing can take place: amazingly cathartic.
Then we can re-build the client, allowing him or her to re-discover their true self, their true power. This in itself is a process of transformation, and I love to see a lighter, brighter, more confident person emerging from the shadows.

Emotional or mental abuse is equally destructive, and gaslighting can destroy someone without them realising what is happening.
Here I work with the client to unravel the tangled roots of the issue back to source. Sometimes this is not as easy as it may seem and may well be somewhat uncomfortable for the client as outdated, inappropriate beliefs and conditioning are dismantled. Relationships may then be seen in a different light; power games recognised for what they are; and different choices may be made, all in a safe, secure environment that builds confidence, self-power and understanding.

If you know someone who may benefit from resolving such issues, do give them my contact numbers – 01444 459 433 or 07597 020 512. Or they can get in touch using the form on this website: the messages do reach me, and I do respond!

I am based in Haywards Heath, West Sussex, and I work from Vinings Natural Health Centre, also in Haywards Heath. I look forward to hearing from you!